Real People. Real Relationships. Real Change.
Choosing the right coach is an important decision. Whether you're considering coaching for dating, relationship challenges, couples work or a breakup, I hope these stories give you a genuine sense of what it's like to work with me. Browse written testimonials, watch video stories, or read my latest Google Reviews to get a feel for what coaching is really like.
Breaking Free: Clara’s Journey from Toxic Cycles to Self-Trust and Happiness
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"More than just dating advice. Practical support that made a real difference""
After watching MAFS and Celebs Go Dating (yes, I know!), I started thinking more seriously about my own fears around dating and relationships. I knew I needed more than chats with friends if I was going to make lasting changes, and I'm so grateful I found Nicole.
From our first phone call, I knew I'd found someone I could talk to openly. Nicole created a space where I felt listened to, understood and completely free from judgement. She helped me understand myself on a much deeper level, while giving me practical tools and worksheets to continue making progress between sessions.
Looking back, I can clearly see how far I've come. Although I'm not currently having sessions, I know Nicole is there if I ever need her again, and I wouldn't hesitate to recommend her.
~ Sass, East Sussex, UK
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"Nicole helped me break down the reoccurring blocks I seemed to hit in every romantic relationship I’ve ever had"
I can’t thank Nicole enough for her help earlier this year. I felt like she really listened to me and helped me make sense of what was going on internally with no judgement. And most helpful of all she gave me practical steps to work through it all!
Nicole helped me break down the reoccurring blocks I seemed to hit in every romantic relationship I’ve ever had. I finally feel like I can have a healthy and stable relationship. And my relationship with my partner has never been more solid and strong.~ Olivia, Brighton, UK
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"She has helped me navigate a really painful separation"
I highly recommend Nicole.
She has helped me navigate a really painful separation after a 45 year marriage.
With her help I am rediscovering who I am and getting my self confidence back.
~ June, Brighton, UK
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"I now feel much lighter, with a clearer plan and a far more positive outlook on dating."
Nicole helped me work through a period where I was feeling really low about dating. I’d reached a point where it all felt quite hopeless and discouraging, but having the space to talk things through with her made a real difference. Through her journaling and introspection methods, I was able to reflect more clearly on my experiences and feelings. As a result, I now feel much lighter, with a clearer plan and a far more positive outlook on dating.
Nicole is a genuinely lovely person and incredibly easy to talk to. She made me feel comfortable very quickly, which made it much easier to open up. Having that supportive space to explore things honestly was invaluable.~ Katie, London, UK
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"Nicole has helped me massively with avoidant attachment, confidence, and leaning into my values"
Nicole has helped me massively through various life transitions, particularly around an avoidant attachment style, building confidence, and leaning into my values. I still use the tools I learnt through Nicole to support me in making positive changes in my life and to remind myself of my values and what’s important to me.
Nicole is a warm and positive presence who kept me accountable and focused on making the changes that were important to me. I think it’s difficult to find a good coach in today’s world, where it seems everyone is wearing that hat, but Nicole is brilliant and I would highly recommend her.
- Lorna, Hove, UK
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"Nicole has given me invaluable tools to help me navigate dating patterns, relationships and my negative self-belief"
Nicole is open, friendly and easy to talk to.
Throughout my sessions, Nicole has listened and has given me some invaluable tools to help me navigate dating patterns, relationships and my negative self-belief.
I feel much more positive moving forward into this year knowing I have resources to guide me.
~ Kate, Lewes, UK
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"I feel calmer, more confident and better equipped to deal with life's challenges. My relationship is flourishing, I feel happy again, and I reached my goals sooner than expected."
It is very rare for me to write a review, but in this case it is the least I can do to show my appreciation for the positive changes I've experienced through working with Nicole.
After facing the loss of a parent, retirement, selling my business, divorce and starting a new relationship all at the same time, my anxiety became overwhelming.
Nicole immediately put me at ease. She gave me practical tools to manage my panic attacks and negative thought loops, while helping me uncover underlying issues such as unresolved grief, anger and insecurities I hadn't fully recognised.
Her warmth, compassion and professionalism made every session feel comfortable, and her written follow-up summaries were invaluable in helping me continue making progress between sessions.
~ Steve, Brighton, UK
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"She helped me uncover what was blocking me and allowed me to view my situation from a fresh perspective"
Nicole’s coaching support enabled me to feel more at peace in my life. She helped me uncover what was blocking me and allowed me to view my situation from a fresh perspective.
I felt very at ease and connected to her right from the start. Her session summaries were super helpful and I left the process feeling very equipped with tools and insights to keep going with what I had learnt in our sessions.
Nicole held the space for me in a very compassionate and empathetic way. I would recommend her to others seeking out this type of support.
~ Rebecca, UK
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"She surpassed everything I’d hoped for from a couples coach"
I can’t recommend Nicole more highly. She surpassed everything I’d hoped for from a couples coach — such as perspective, being given a toolkit, and feeling truly heard. She was knowledgeable, warm, patient, sharp, and most of all, genuinely invested.
She followed up each time in writing with her summary, reflections, and things for us to consider and try. She helped guide us through some really difficult conversations, and we found it so much easier to navigate things and make progress with her there.
Nicole is an experienced professional and a lovely woman!
- Craig, Hove, UK
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" One of the greatest things — no matter how bad you think some of your behaviours are, she won’t judge you — just gently help you through it! "
Nicole has been nothing but amazing and caring from the get-go! We’ve only had a couple of sessions so far, but the way she phrases questions and the tasks she gives you (very quickly after the session) are fantastic. I used to coach as well, so I have very high expectations — and Nicole met them all.
I’m so excited for this journey together and I know the outcomes will only be great. One of the greatest things is that no matter how bad you think some of your behaviours are, she won’t judge you. She will gently help you through it, so don’t be scared to share your worst sides as well.
Thank you, Nicole! ♥️
- Clara, Hamburg, Germany
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" She managed to break down one of the most challenging events with practical, reassuring, and compassionate advice and tools "
Working with Nicole was an absolute pleasure. She managed to break down one of the most challenging events with practical, reassuring, and compassionate advice and tools. Nicole offered a calm, safe space to share really difficult thoughts and feelings, and we never failed to leave a session with greater clarity and a deeper understanding of our own actions.
It was so helpful to receive communication after our sessions that reinforced our conversations, along with information that offered further insight and tools to implement positive change.
We will forever be grateful for Nicole’s support and encouragement
— C&N Johnson, Brighton, UK
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"Nicole helped us greatly to remember why we wanted to remain as a couple but also how to communicate our wants, needs and issues without it ending up in a shouting match!"
Nicole took the time and effort to get to know us individually and as a couple and worked with us both around communication and triggers.
We found Nicole to be very honest with the work that was needed individually and as a couple. She gave us useful at-home tasks to complete to complement communication and the topics covered in the sessions. Thank you Nicole
- S&G Martin, Hove, UK
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“ Whether you’ve suffered recent heartbreak, need support in a new relationship, have family issues or feel lost in yourself, I can wholeheartedly recommend working with Nicole ”
Over three months, she’s helped me break free from repeated dating and relationship patterns, rebuild my self-esteem, and develop tools to navigate situations that once left me stressed and anxious.
Her thoughtful guidance and practical techniques, like journaling and affirmations, have been transformative. I now feel assured, worthy, and ready to take on the future. Nicole is patient, kind, and truly dedicated to your growth.
Thank you, Nicole. I couldn’t have done it without you!
- Lauren S, Brighton & Hove, Sussex, UK
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“ I needed help with dating and understanding more about my attachment style, which I didn’t want to let get in the way of my relationships anymore ”
From the start, she reassured me that change was possible, which gave me confidence and positivity. Nicole’s warm and welcoming approach made me feel comfortable right away.
Working with her has helped me boost my self-esteem and gain a positive image of myself. Her guided visualisations during our sessions were incredibly healing and transformative. The homework she set allowed me to continue working on myself between sessions, making the process even more effective.
This journey with Nicole has been incredible, and I’m so grateful for her support.
- Poppy S, Brighton
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“ I broke my repeating patterns and healed my attachment injury, enabling me to move forward with confidence ”
Nicole effortlessly helped me uncover the root cause of my relationship issues by giving me the space to focus on myself. Through her compassionate approach, I identified my repeating patterns and healed my attachment injury, enabling me to move forward with confidence. I now understand my triggers and have clear strategies to respond consciously.
What I appreciated most was her holistic approach, looking not only at my relationship but at my entire life. I now have a deeper understanding of who I am, what I want, and how to express myself better.
I’ve already recommended Nicole to my friends, and she’ll be my first call for future challenges.
- S Bishop, Brighton
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"Nicole is very insightful and perceptive and will actively help you to unpick anything you are finding challenging, this is not a passive listening style of support".
I saw Nicole both as an individual and with my partner to talk about relationship issues. I found the sessions so helpful, they are practical and solution focused whilst also allowing space for emotions and healing.
Nicole is very insightful and perceptive and will actively help you to unpick anything you are finding challenging, this is not a passive listening style of support.
The summary email Nicole sends in between sessions is extremely high quality, giving you reflections, prompts and things to try out as 'homework'. The main things I got out of coaching was clarity of thought and ongoing tools to apply in my relationship.
On top of this, Nicole has a lovely warm and kind energy and is easy to open up to. I am very grateful for Nicole's support.
~ Louise, Hove, UK
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" She has helped me gain deep insights into my relationships, attachment style, and personal growth in ways I never could have on my own "
Working with Nicole has been an incredible experience. She has helped me gain deep insights into my relationships, attachment style, and personal growth in ways I never could have on my own. Her guidance has been invaluable in understanding and overcoming challenges, allowing me to grow into a better version of myself. I truly appreciate her support, wisdom, and compassionate approach. I highly recommend her to anyone seeking clarity and growth in their relationships and self-understanding!
- Jeremy S, West Sussex
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" I can proudly say that I’ve healed from my past relationship and am ready to move forward, feeling more confident and ready to navigate the dating world ”
I went to Nicole after a break-up as I wanted to understand myself better and close the chapter on my relationship. I was confused by why it hadn’t worked for me, and wanted to put my past behind me so I could be ready for whatever came next. Nicole was warm, welcoming and I found it very easy to connect with her. She listened, was empathetic and helped me navigate through the confusion, anxiety and insecurities I was facing. She introduced many useful strategies such as reframes, which I still use today. These were all easy to implement into my daily life and helped me rationalise and deal with any unhelpful thoughts.
- Stephanie P, Brighton & Hove, Sussex, UK
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"A Safe Space to Be Myself."
I enjoyed my regular sessions with Nicole.
She provided a safe and confidential space for me to open up and be myself.
I fully recommend if you are looking for encouragement, support and an amazing listener in your life.
~ Chris, Brighton, UK
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“ My main goal was to make a decision to either stay or leave my relationship with my partner, and YES, I 100% achieved it! ”
With Nicole’s perspective, insight, and tools, I was able to make a decision that truly worked for me. She helped me gain a fresh perspective on my relationship, allowing me to feel more optimistic and confident about its future.
Nicole made me feel completely comfortable and provided a safe, judgment-free space where I could be vulnerable. Her caring, supportive nature and understanding especially with my children occasionally interrupting made all the difference.
Nicole is an amazing relationship coach, and I would wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone seeking guidance.
– P Clair, New Zealand
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“ Nicole helped me to deal with my emotions and anxiety better and gave me the confidence I need to have a lasting relationship ”
Nicole was excellent in her work and was super helpful in guiding me through my self-doubt and the issues I needed to overcome in a gentle and nurturing way. She is great at spotting areas to work with the right tools to help work through problems.
I’m far more confident in myself and have techniques to help me when I’m struggling. When I start a new relationship, I now know what would like from it and what I can offer to others.
— Harry, Sussex, UK
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“ Nicole’s coaching helped me navigate a complicated break-up with clarity and confidence ”
Within just a few sessions, I felt in control of my thoughts and ready to step bravely into a new chapter.
Her techniques and exercises were inspiring and helped me pinpoint what truly matters to me and what I want in life—something I had never fully considered before. After each session, my mind felt clearer, my emotions more settled, and my confidence in decision-making greatly improved.
Nicole is an excellent listener who made me feel comfortable, valued, and unjudged. It was such a relief to share everything that had been locked in my mind.
- Emma J, West Sussex, UK
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“ Nicole helped me navigate a drastic life event, rebuild a strong relationship with my husband & most importantly, improve the relationship with myself ”
She made me feel at ease from the start, listening attentively and providing well-founded advice and effective coping methods.
The additional materials she recommended gave me valuable insight into my situation and helped me gain clarity and understanding. The personal growth I’ve achieved through Nicole’s sessions has been so noticeable that it’s even inspired some of my friends to seek counselling for their own challenges.
Nicole has restored my faith in seeking external help, and I cannot recommend her enough.
- Morgan D, Durham, UK
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“ Nicole helps you see the problems and solutions extremely clearly and calmly ”
With Nicole’s help, I gained valuable insights into my relationships and life that have been hugely beneficial. Her approach is both practical and productive, yet she remains sympathetic and non-judgmental.
Nicole created a relaxed and comfortable space, unpicking a potentially messy situation and clearly laying out the options and their benefits. What felt like a seamless, pleasant chat resulted in a profound understanding of how to balance my relationships, work, and free time.
I was surprised by what I learned and the clarity it brought. Nicole is an exceptional coach, and I cannot recommend her enough.
— Adam P. Sussex, UK
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“ Nicole helped me to assess my reactions to certain triggers and encouraged me to think in a different, positive way ”
I had relationship counselling sessions with Nicole to help me deal with some relationship issues and how I dealt with them. She really helped me to assess my reactions to certain triggers and encouraged me to think in a different, positive way. She also helped with my wellbeing by establishing my values.
I found Nicole very easy to talk to about my concerns. She was empathetic and a great listener.
I would not hesitate to recommend Nicole and I will definitely revisit her for any future issues.
- Alison, West Sussex, UK
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“ I was at a crossroads and Nicole was able to help me gain clarity on my situation ”
The sessions allowed me to work through what I want and need, and how to feel more confident.
I felt comfortable opening up to her straight away. I'm now able to express myself to my partner and we understand each other better.
— Susie B. Sydney, Australia
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“ I feel stronger! And love and respect myself more! ”
After a few relationship coaching sessions with Nicole, I'm transforming already. It's an incredible feeling!
She's very warm, easy to talk to, encouraging and positive, but very professional. She helped me look at some areas from a different perspective and suggested some tools to use in difficult times.
I feel stronger and love and respect myself more!
— P Renin. Brighton, UK
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“ My sessions were really positive, enlightening and informative! ”
Nicole is very personable and made me feel at ease straight away.
She suggested excellent tips and techniques to help my relationship with my son. I've already put them into practice and seen positive benefits.
— Paul D. Brighton, UK